I knew something was wrong for months, but could not get husband to talk. Finally on Mar 1st, he confesses he has been talking with another woman and thinks he has fallen in love with her. I am so crushed and watching my 12yr marriage come to an end. In Apr he confesses he has been in love with her for couple yrs.....Let's add insult to this injury.....This is a women he dated prior to me and this is the 2nd time he has taken to her. First time in 2000 her husband caught on and stopped it very quickly. Her husband contacted me and sh*t hit the fan. My husband had nothing to do with her the 1st time sexually. I know now this 2nd time has been going on since Aug 07. She filed divorce fr her husband jul 25 07 and started calling my husband a week later. I know it is much more serious and he is sneaking around meeting her and hiding cell phone bills. I called this other woman I know her name and her cell tn and home phone tn. She informs me she has been in love with my husband for 20yrs. So what he is married. I informed my husband if she has been in love with u for 20yrs why did she marry her husband and say "I do's" and spread her legs to give him 2 children. She was not thinking of u then. This woman is very aggressive and controlling. I am so fu*****g mad I could scream. I love him although I have been served with divorce papers and I have a very good attorney. We will divorce and I hope they both get what is coming to them. What goes around comes around. I was married in the eyes of God w/our favorite priest and family. I can get annulment and he can not for his betrayal. |